Long Distance Cyber lovers Readings

Long Distance Cyber Lovers Readings are a relatively new phenomenon in Tarot.  Cyber Lovers fall in love with an image.  Some compare this type of love as just temporarily sailing away with someone.

 

Long Distance Cyber Lovers Readings
Long Distance Cyber Lovers Readings
L’Amoureux
Chamoine-Zodorosky
Tarot de Marseille

 

“No more will you cry

Baby I will hurt you never

We start and end as one

In love forever

We can ride it together

Making love with each other”

(Bee Gees, Islands in the Stream)

Long Distance Cyber Lovers Readings

Long Distance Cyber Lovers Readings are about two good intention person’s who just want to be able to love each other.  They do not intentionally mean to hurt no one.  Something inexplicable draws them to each other.  Something very powerful, that they cannot explain, nor resist.

Hello there, fellow Tarot Readers.  My name is Evergreen, of Tarot Reading By Evergreen.  I posted on my timeline a sad, but true story that happened some years ago to an online friend of mine.  This post of mine got great comments.  So I thought I would turn it into a blog article on Long Distance Cyber Lovers Tarot Readings.

To make a long story short, this online friend of mine met a guy online who managed to get her to leave her husband and children, so to go be with him in real life.  He spoke of a future together.

After four days of waiting for him at the motel where they were to meet, she went back home empty-handed.  Her husband refused to take her back.  With time, she found herself an apartment and did get custody of her children.  She did get alimony and child support.

Fortunately, what happened to my online friend does not happen to everyone.  Not everyone gets caught at it, not everyone leaves a cyber relationship brokenhearted.  Not all cyber lovers are attached or married to someone else.  Not all of them destroy their lives over it.

However, some do get hurt by cyber relationships.  Some do end up hurting their husbands/wives, and families.  Some are victimized by online people.  And some do meet up with very nasty people.  Thankfully, she was never in no real danger…

So let us get into what a cyber relationship really is.  What causes a cyber relationship to sour.  And how we Tarot Readers can be of help to those clients of ours who come to us with a question about the cyber relationship they got into.

What is a cyber relationship

What is a cyber relationship, some may wonder even today?  The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines a cyber relationship between two online lovers, as “a romantic or sexual friendship between two people”.

Some of these Cyber Relationships occur on a casual basis, “like two ships meeting in the night”.  Usually, between two consenting adults presumed old enough to know what they are getting into.  Eventually, it all ends.

 

Long Distance Cyber lovers Readings
Long Distance Cyber lovers Readings

Other types of cyber lovers are exactly what this term implies.  They meet online and become “online partners”.  They take the time to develop a long-term friendship with one another.  With time,  they eventually become quite seriously smitten with each other.  These are “like islands in the stream.”  They have a thing going on!

It is exactly like the song says.  They are like islands in the stream.  They cyberly make love to each other…

It does happen from time to time, in such cases, that they will leave their real-life spouses and children to take their online long distance relationship to real life.  However, this rarely happens.  And when it does, these types of relationships do not last long once they take it to real life.  (If my real life husband ever reads this, he will beg to differ.  As we met online, took it to real life, and have been married to each other for seven years now.  Goes to show, not all online men are scoundrels, he would add).

Many younger, less experienced Tarot Readers might ask, how could someone leave a real life marriage for a cyber lover knowing full well he/she is but a fantasy?  And how can a Tarot Reader be of help to such people?  This is a very pertinent question

To quote Pearl Annie, “personally I do not judge other people’s mistakes.  I prefer to help them learn from them perhaps by offering a Tarot Reading and showing some compassion.”  Pearl Annie works at the Tarot Readers Development and Study Group; a place to grow in tarot.  She mentors the course for students at the International Tarot Foundation. “I love helping the tarot newbies learn to read traditional tarot….”

Indeed!  Judging someone who is in a cyber relationship, or is in love with their cyber lover, is not the way of the Tarot.  The Tarot teaches us that there are Core Forces who control us.  And that we are in ‘reaction’ to these forces.  Sometimes, these Core Forces are difficult to resist!

We often forget that our online Tarot client is a real person too.  Our online Querent is a real life human being who can become attracted to another online person.  Who can fall in love with a person who is nice to them.  Just like in real life, the online person hopes for a future with someone they meet; even if it is just online.

What about the guy who jilted her

What about the guy who jilted her?  We tend to think bad of a woman who leaves her husband and children to go be with her online guy.  Not many people have sympathies for this kind of mother.  But they often forget about the man who dumped her.  What about him?

Long Distance Cyber lovers Readings
Long Distance Cyber lovers Readings

After all is said and done, the fact remains that my friend’s cyber lover had lured her to a motel room, in a foreign country, only to capriciously and unfeelingly drop her as his lover.  This was when my friend’s world came crashing down.  She came to an abrupt realization that he had lied to her about who he was; where he worked; and about his single status.  He was a married man who had not kept his own marital difficulties within the confines of his own marriage.

My online friend had become confused.  She had lost sight of the fact that she had fallen in love with an online persona.  According to Wikipedia, an “Internet identity (also called IID), is an internet persona or an online social identity that an Internet user establishes in online communities and websites. It can also be considered as an actively constructed presentation of oneself. Although some people choose to use their real names online, some Internet users prefer to be anonymous, identifying themselves by means of pseudonyms, which reveal varying amounts of personally identifiable information. An online identity may even be determined by a user’s relationship to a social group they are a part of online. Some can even be deceptive about their identity.”  To read more about online personas, click on INTERNET IDENTITY.

In other words, my friend’s online guy had bullshitted her about himself.  It was after he was a no-show at “their motel”, that she found out is true identity.  But why would he do that to her who loved him so?

The answer to that question lies in the relatively new, recent sociological event of Internet Cyber Lovers.  The real world was not prepared for this.  Women of my generation were not warned by our mothers to beware of the online persona who seeks sexual gratification with an online image that we women put on our Facebook timelines.

What is sexual gratification with an online image

What is sexual gratification with an online image, is a question that might sound retarded to the younger online person of today.  However, it remains a very pertinent question that goes directly to the subject of Long Distance Cyber Lovers.  If you think about it more closely, long distance lovers who find each other online – are attracted by the pictures on their timelines.

The real world first heard about Cyber Lovers in the late 1990’s.  It was only between the early 1990’s – 1995 that online people began sending out emails to each other!  And since the advent of the email,  Man discovered a new approach to flirting with the ladies.

However, it was not until Kenny Rogers and Dolly Parton’s popularized version of the song “Islands in the Stream” did America first hear about the Internet term “cyber lovers” .  Islands in the Stream was written by The Bee Gees for Kenny and Dolly after a journalist had hacked into Dolly’s email account and had published the email correspondence between these two Cyber Lovers.

Since Kenny was very much in love with Dolly as his cyber lover, he proudly told his country music fans that Dolly and he were indeed cyber lovers.  Which caused Dolly’s husband to divorce her, and her fans to shun her.

In order to smooth things over with their country music fans, both Kenny and Dolly decided to appear together on a t.v. show.  Click on Highlands in the Stream to listen to Kenny and Dolly singing it together as they met for the first time in real life.

Is cybersex pornography

Is cybersex pornography, some might ask.  And that is why so many will not admit to being someone’s Cyber Lover. This fact sociological is indeed called porn.

The advent of a man falling in love with the ‘image’ dates way back to the Old Testament times of the Bible (since at least the Bronze Age).  Fast forwarding to today, Man transferred his love of the carved imaged to that of the online image.

Since the advent of the online image, the webcam got invented.  On a webcam, cyber lovers can see each other’s images.  The image of the person seen through the webcam is a relatively new phenomenon that is also used by individuals who want cyber sex together (which involves having sex with an image…)

The image is an impersonal object of desire (it brings no drama) to the one admiring it in a lustful fashion.  Once a Cyber Lover goes to real life, the other cyber lover reacts negatively to the image being there; because the object of his desire reacts with real life emotions and has real-life wants and needs.  The Cyber Lover gets dumped because he/she has then entered into personal life.

In summary, this is what happened to my online friend who had left her husband and children for her online guy.  Just like Kenny and Dolly, she had fallen for the online image of an online persona.  She was not the object of his desire, her image was…  I did not judge my online friend.  Instead, I felt compassion for her and her husband, and for her children.  And for her online guy too!

Long Distance Cyber Lovers Tarot Readings require doing the Reading with compassion.  It may be that Cyber Lovers fall in love with an image, but they can get hurt too just like any other couple can.   Temporarily sailing away with each other in a cyberly fashion is a truth that can come up during a Tarot Reading…

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In Love With An Addict

In Love With An Addict, hurts.  It breaks our hearts to see them suffer like that.  Worse yet, there is just nothing we can do to change them.  We can only change ourselves really.

 

In Love With An Addict
In Love With An Addict

 

You made the choice

You made the choice,
to hurt me, and cause
me pain. You broke my
heart, twisted my soul
unlike any other.

(Poem by hopingicanhelp, Friends and Family of Substance Abusers)

 

In Love With An Addict

In Love With An Addict twists your heart.  Worse yet, you cannot seem to let go.  The addict has tied you to his ball and chain.

 

In Love With An Addict
In Love With An Addict

 

One in ten Americans suffer from drug or alcohol addiction.  You want them to stop doing that, but they just don’t seem able to.  It is indeed easier said than done.

Broken promises abound, lies by the plenty.  Suspicions, deceit, back stabbings, and you have been put under the bus a million times and again.  You have walked-out, come back in again, only to get hurt again.

Addiction is an illness

Addiction is an illness one is never cured of.  The addiction is just as much an illness as diabetes is.  One would not breakup with somebody we love just because they are diabetic. That would be a total lack of compassion.  Nor does average spouse of an addict break up with the addict just because he suffers from an addiction.

When the person we love suffers from substance abuse, we are the first to come to terms with the fact that he obviously suffers from an illness which is addiction to Ethol or to some other substance.  So we try to encourage our loved one to stop what he is doing to himself.

We encourage our addict and support him through detox and family counselling.  We even stop drinking ourselves – even we are not addicted to alcohol ourselves.  And we try to nurse them during recovery.

A great many who suffer from addiction, seem to not want to stop what they are doing to themselves and to us too.  Those, you cannot reach, nor do they want to be reached. It’s as if no amount of compassion , nor love can change them…  They drain your energy, and they want more.  Click on Eating Rubble, to read further about addiction.

Many addicts do overcome their addiction to alcohol and drugs.  There is something you can do to help them.  You can help your addict to look forward to recovery!  But first, you need to get real.

Get Real

Get real!  Getting someone to admit they are powerless over alcohol or drugs, is the hardest thing you will ever do in your life.  Admitting one is powerless over alcohol or drugs is difficult enough for you to do yourself; and so it the same for the addict.

In Love With An Addict
In Love With An Addict

For an addict to realize they are an addict is close to impossible.  You can be calm and patient, or bitch and yell, neither way will get anywhere with that.   You need to realize that you are in love with an addict, just as much as the addict needs to realize he is an addict.

It will take serenity to accept you can not change the addict.  It will take courage to change what you can about your own situation. And wisdom to know the difference.  You need to learn where you stop, and where the addict begins.  You need to know where the line you have drawn in the line is, just as much as you need to know where his line in the sand is.

In Love With An Addict
In Love With An Addict

His mind is covered by a dark cloud looming about it.   And so is yours in a cloud.  You first have to get your head out of the cloud, so to show him the way out of his addiction.  Not only is the sick with his substance abuse, so are you.  An addict makes about 85 persons in his environment; some may be just as sick as he is, even though they do not abuse alcohol or drugs themselves.  He makes his spouse and children sick from his abuse.  Also his family and friends.  His co-workers and his employer too.

In many cases, the addict becomes alienated from those who care and love him.  He risks getting fired from the workplace, if that has not already happened yet.  His dependency on alcohol or drugs is so very powerful, that it becomes all-encompassing to him and to his loved ones.  Even you are successful with an intervention, he remains at high risk of a relapse.  Falling off the proverbial wagon happens.  Walk into any alcohol or drug anonymous self-help meeting, you will hear the addict speaker there insist upon saying, that the addict must seek help of the addiction – on his own accord for it to work for him.  So, first thing first, take care of yourself!

Take care of yourself

Take care of yourself.  First thing first, is to change yourself before you can ever change your addict.  You cannot fix your addict if you can’t fix yourself first.

So many of us who care about and love our spouse or a family member who suffers from an addiction.  We want to fix everything that we feel is not right with him in his life.  This is because what is happening to him affect us directly.

The addict has made us sick just as much as he has made himself sick, if not more.  The ego of an addict is soooo huge and enormous, that he plays god over us.  He enslaves us into meeting his ego’s needs at all cost to ourselves.  Which brings us to let go of our own morals and principles, so that his may live.

Sooner or later, he will expect you to give him money; to lie for him, to keep his secrets; to nurse and baby him; to give him a place to stay; to front his debts on your arm; to clean-up after him when he messes both on himself and on you.  He will punish you for having contradicted him; to not call 911 when he injures himself badly; he make you pay for his mental and physical services.  In his faulty rational he will feel the need to be violent against you so he can show you he doesn’t want you to mother him.  He will confuse your own sense of good judgement, just because you disturb his buzz, or that the baby does.  Click on Tattered Dreams, to learn more about addiction.

We soon discover that the addict pulls away even further from us, when we try to fix him.  All you can really do, really, is to fix yourself.

Fix yourself first

Fix yourself first just as much for your own sake, as for his.  By fixing yourself first, you give yourself hope.  And by extension, your show him that he can also find hope for himself too.

Dot let him ruin you too and the children too!

Active addicts bring great suffering to all who care for him and love him.  Even though you cannot change the addict, by changing yourself first will help both you and him find hope.  So to find hope, you need to look for the light at the end of the tunnel.

Being in love with an addict, hurts.  I know, because I’ve been there, done that.  Click on Those Old Aylmer Days

Eating Rubble

Eating Rubble is a term used in Alcoholic Anonymous Self Help Groups.  It is used to describe what happens to the Addict when he(1) hits rock bottom.  When that happens to him, he only has two choices.  Either he will continue to walk down on his rough road, or he will take the smoother, softer road from now on.

 

Eating Rubble
Eating Rubble
Tarot of Dreams
by Ciro Marchetti

Eating Rubble

Eating rubble is not what most of us would like to eat; nor would the Addict/Alcoholic.  Sadly, he does.  When a man comes out of a bar after drinking all afternoon into the late evening, he is too drunk to walk very far.  He stumbles and falls because his road is rough.  When he falls, his mouth is right on the rubble that is spread out upon his route.  Many a drunken man gets back up onto his two feet, his face and mouth covered with rubble.

This is the analogy used in many AA meetings throughout the world, when handing-out a twenty-four-hour sobriety medal.  The person gets up so to take this 24-hour medal, but does not make the promise to never, ever drink again.  But rather, it represents to him and to other Alcoholics that he is asking for help – so to ‘try’ to stay sober during the next 24-hour time period.  It is but a reminder to him and to other Alcoholics that this man needs help to not drink for today, and for today only; he is ‘Eating Rubble’!

Eating Rubble is also another way of saying that your mouth is pasty and dry.  You need a drink to quiet your nerves and your thinking.  Your body may go into shock if you do not have a drink.

If he meets another AA Member along his way to the bar, all he needs to do is to show his 24-hour Sobriety Medal, and his fellow Alcoholic will know what to do and what to say to him – so to help him out, and help keep him sober for today only.

For Today Only

For Today Only, you have two choices given to you.  To go get up and take your 24-hour Sobriety Medal.  It is not a promise to never drink again.  It is simply a reminder to you about what your life is like.  If you need help to stay sober – for today only, all you need to do is show your 24-hour Sobriety Medal to another Member of AA.  He will know what to say and do to help you ‘not drink during this 24-Hour’.

Eating Rubble
Eating Rubble
A gravel road

On one side of the Medal, it is rough.  This rough side reminds you that if you take your first drink today, you will continue having a rough life…

On the other side, the medal is smooth.  The smooth side represents what your life could be like if you stay in AA.  Your life will be smoother from now on.  At least you will not eat rubble ‘for today only’.  Take it ‘One Day at a Time’.

One Day At A Time

One Day at a time, is all we ask you to do.  Stay sober One Day at a time.  Don’t look at it as not drinking never again.  Look at it as simply not drinking for today only.

If you look at not drinking too many days in advance, you will fall and eat rubble again.  But if you look at it for ‘just for today’, it won’t seem sooooo bad at all.

Don’t think about you having taken a drink – yesterday.  Yesterday is gone.  Today is all you have.  Tomorrow has not even happened yet!

To think about Yesterday, and Tomorrow is drama!  When you do that, you think too much about the storm you have walked into.  All you are accomplishing then, is to stick to your storm instead of letting go of it!

Letting Go

Letting Go for an Alcoholic/Addict, is another way of saying:  stop the drama!  When a storm passes over your life, you don’t want to grab the lightning that licks you.  It will kill you!

Eating Rubble
Eating Rubble
Let go of your Ego

Best thing you can ever do for yourself then, is to let the storm ravage your life.  Once the storm has done its thing, it will go away.  So in the meantime, put both arms to your sides, and just ride the storm.

Once the storm is gone, there will be time enough to assess the damage caused by the storm in your life.  Once that is done, pick up what’s left of your life, and rebuild your home, family, and your future.  But for today only, simply let go.

Tower Card Meaning in The Tarot of Dreams Deck

Tower Card Meaning in the Tarot of Dreams Deck by Ciro Marchetti – is an interpretation that may be a tad different from the one in most other Tarot Decks.  This particular Tower Card represents, both in Tarot Dream Interpretation and in Tarot Addiction Counselling, that there is drama in the Querent’s life.  That he is ‘eating rubble’.

He is eating rubble, because of the drama he creates about his own life.  He has already hit rock bottom.  Now he whines about it, instead of getting rid of his problem.  His problem is not his boss, nor his wife and kids, nor his bills.  The problem is his ‘ego’.

His Ego is larger than life!  His Ego pushes him to get immediate gratification from his bottle.  He thinks he is right to let his Ego control him and his life, even when he is wrong by doing that.

Light Bulb Moment

Light Bulb Moment means getting a genius of an idea!  Out of nowhere, he gets this bright idea that it is his drinking that is his problem.  This is when he wakes-up and smells the coffee.  And now a change is possible.

In order for a change to take place, he needs to ‘let go’ of his bottle.  He needs to change his old way of thinking.  And look at his life from a new angle!

Seeing the Light at the end of the tunnel, brings hope into his life.  A new life is then possible for him.  The storm has passed, and the Sun rises again in the East.  It is the dawn of a new 24-hours for you the Addict/alcoholic. You are now walking upon a softer road!

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Addiction Counselling – Stage Director Controls

Addiction Counselling - Stage Director Controls
Addiction Counselling – Stage Director Controls

Addiction Counselling – Stage Director Controls

 

Should you decide to grab hold of the train conductor’s outstretched hand, your life will begin to change.  You will begin to notice, that the stage of your life is directed by others.  Even the train conductor will have a say about your life.

The train conductor will pull you up into his train wagon.  He will close the door behind the two of you.  And he will welcome you on board his train, and offer you a seat.

Once you are comfortably sitting down, the train engine starts pulling the wagons along behind it.  It will begin to pick-up speed as it goes down the tracks, carrying you along with it.  It goes out through the same dark tunnel you first had entered through in the first place.

You can now see daylight once again!

 

Addiction Counselling - Stage Director Controls
Addiction Counselling – Stage Director Controls

Meanwhile, the train you are on keeps going down the tracks.  It is going back, in the same direction you had come from, until it reaches the train station with you on board.

Once the train comes to a stop at the train station, you recognize that this is your stop.  This is the station from where you had begun your journey.  You get off from the train knowing that you have been brought back home!

We cannot control the sun in the sky, nor other people.  Life is as if a play we see taking place on a stage.  The play on the stage is not all written by us.  It is not all about ourselves.

Addiction Counselling - Stage Director Controls
Addiction Counselling – Stage Director Controls

At times, the play on the stage of life brings tears to our eyes.  The tears may even flow down our cheeks.  With our tears, we try to place people up on the stage.  We try to place one actor here at this end of the stage, the other over there at that end of the stage.  We write out the lines for them to say, we hand out roles for the actors to play.  We direct them to act as we would instruct them to.

Alas, our tears really do not have that much control over the actors on our stage of life.  No matter how many tears we shed, no matter how we yell out our instructions at them the actors, we really do not have that much control over them.  We are of good intentions; we want the play to unfold properly.  The actors are of good intentions too.  They want to shine on stage before us, and the public.  When push comes to shove, we can all still disappoint each other…

Addiction Counselling - Stage Director Controls
Addiction Counselling – Stage Director Controls

Our tears do not have much control over the sun in the sky, nor over the actors we want to direct on stage, because there is much more than would meet the eye.  We cannot see all that is going on behind the stage curtains.  Behind the curtains, behind the scene of our lives, there are all sorts of other people doing their own thing back there.

There are always others behind the scene.  There is the director of the play, the producer, the marketer, puppet masters, and writers for example.  All these people work behind the scene of the stage of our life.  They are the ones who truly control and direct what actually takes place on stage before the audience.  No matter how many tears that flow down our cheeks, we just simply cannot control each one of the actors playing a role in the play of our lives.

The only real control we do have is over our own tears that flow down our cheeks.  Just as we cannot control the sun from going to its different positions above our head up there up in the sky, we cannot control all that goes on up there on the stage of our lives…  All we can really do is to ‘accept’ what is going on..

 

The Serenity Prayer

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

Courage to change the things I can,

And Wisdom to know the difference.

 

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Addiction Counselling – Light Comes Towards You

Addiction Counselling - Light Comes Towards You
Addiction Counselling – Light Comes Towards You

 

Addiction Counselling – Light Comes Towards You

When we look up to see ‘the Light at the end of the tunnel, it can seem far away; even too far away off in the distance.  Hope can seem to be as if unreachable.  When hope is covered by dark clouds and too far to touch, we can become discouraged.

After walking for a long ways in the darkness of the train tunnel, it is normal to become too exhausted to go on.  Taking another step forward, so to reach the Light at the end of the tunnel, can seem very impossible to a weary soul.  Then, you feel like you just cannot go on any further.

When it seems too far away for you to reach the other end of the tunnel, you must keep to the side of the tracks.  In your moment of discouragement, keep your eyes up, and keep looking straight ahead anyways.  Because that is when the Light will start coming towards you!

It should not come as any surprise to you.  The Light at the end of the tunnel that comes to you is the light at the front of the train!  You know that at the front of the train engine, there is a light.  It is there, so to illuminate the tracks ahead of the train.  The Train Engineer looks out on to the lit-up tracks before him, so to make sure all is well ahead.

Addiction Counselling - Light Comes Towards You
Addiction Counselling – Light Comes Towards You

Even when standing by the side of the tracks, the light on the train shines upon you.  When the light shines upon you, the Train Conductor will signal the engineer to bring the train to a stop.

You actually do not need to do anything special, the train just stops!  The Train Conductor will open the wagon door, come down off the little step, and stand by the side of the train.  He will extend a hand to you, and say “all aboard”.  That is when you know for sure, that the train has stopped especially for you.

Light Comes Towards You
Light Comes Towards You

The Conductor has ordered the train to stop especially for you, so to let you on.  It is up to you to grab the Conductor’s hand and to get on the train.  If you do not, the Conductor will get back in the train, and order the Engineer to make the train leave without you.  And the train will leave you there, all alone in the dark tunnel.

So, either you accept to take the train conductor’s hand and get on board the train, or you do not.  Either way it is up to you…

Light Comes Towards You
Light Comes Towards You

If you accept the Conductor’s offer to get on board, the train will bring you back to the Train Station.  At the Train Station, there are people there that can help you find your way back home.  Once you get back home, your family and friends will be happy to see you again, and they will welcome you.  At home, it will be warm and dry, and you can have a warm meal and some hot coffee.  At home, you can rest…

Addiction Counselling - Light Comes Towards You
Addiction Counselling – Light Comes Towards You

 

So, when you see the light coming towards you, know that the light represents hope.  The train represents courage.  The Train Station represents wisdom.  The Train Conductor represents making the difference.  And that home represents serenity.

 

 

 

 

The Serenity Prayer

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

Courage to change the things I can,

And Wisdom to know the difference

 

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Addiction Counselling – Tears On Your Pillow At Night

Addiction counselling - Tears On Your Pillow At Night.
Addiction counselling – Tears On Your Pillow At Night.

 

Addiction counselling – Tears On Your Pillow At Night.

 

Consider the sun.  It rises in the East, goes up, and up into the sky until it reaches its place at Noon Time.  It then continues its way to its place in the West.  There, in the West, it will go down at night.  It will go down, to go around to the other side of the Earth – so to bring light to those people on the other side of the Earth.

Once it does go down in the West, darkness falls upon you.  While your side of the Earth is covered in darkness, the sun continues on its course while you sleep.  It continues moving, on the other side of the Earth, during your nighttime; it continues so to again rise brilliantly in the East.  And there is just nothing you can do about that.

No matter how many tears flow down your cheeks, you will not be able to stop the sun from rising again in the morning.  No matter how many tears you cry, your tears will not stop the sun from rising in the East.

Addiction Counselling - tears on your pillow at night
Addiction Counselling – tears on your pillow at night

Even if you want to stop the sun from rising, you cannot stop it from going around the world.  It has gone around the world each and every day now – for millions of years.  No tears have ever been able to stop the sun from rising in the morning.

If you are like me, there are times when you wish that tomorrow would never come.  You suffer your heartache, and it may feel like the world has come to an end.  But the dang sun keeps rising in the morning, anyways…  And tomorrow, and the next day, and the day after that, and for what seems like forever…

There comes a time in everyone’s life when we get a sense of having no control over anything that is happening to us in our lives.  The world is often a place that brings tears to swell-up in our eyes, and flow down our cheeks.  During those sorrow-filled days, we do not have any another choice but to go through them in tears…

Addiction Counselling - tears on your pillow at night
Addiction Counselling – tears on your pillow at night

 

You may not have control over what the sun does, but you can have control over your tears.  You can choose not to cry!  You can choose to accept that you cannot control the sun from rising each morning…

 

 

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

The courage to change the things I can,

And the wisdom to know the difference.

 

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Light at the End of the Tunnel

Light at the end of the tunnel
Light at the end of the tunnel

 

LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL

 

When you are alone and that things just went from bad to worst, know that it is not hopeless.   When you feel discouraged, everything can seem pointless to you.  If you don’t know who to go to for help now, you need to know about the light at the end of the tunnel.

Thing is, you are so busy looking at the darkness surrounding you, that you are looking at your feet while walking.  When you only look at your feet, when walking, you don’t see ‘the Light at the end of the tunnel’…  In the light at the end of the tunnel, there is hope for you.

Lift your eyes up, and look straight ahead in front of you!  Look for ‘the Light at the end of the tunnel’…  If you keep your eyes up from your feet, you will see it.

light at the end of the tunnel
light at the end of the tunnel

If you have ever gone through a dark train tunnel, then you know it can get pretty dark in there.  When walking through the darkness of the tunnel, it is highly recommended you walk to one side of the train track.  Because if a train comes through the tunnel, it will go through it very fast.  And it will then go out through the other end.

In the darkness of the tunnel, when walking to one side of the tracks, you will often lose your sure footing.  You will tend to lower your eyes so to look down to see where to step.  It is so dark inside your train tunnel, that you don’t see one foot before the other; much less where to step.   You will tend to be careful not to trip and fall.  Thing is, if you don’t look straight ahead, you risk bumping into something…  So you need to look-up anyways.

Look up and straight ahead of you – towards the end of the tunnel.  You need to look at the end of the tunnel, so to see ‘the Light at the end of the tunnel’.  There is always a light at the end of the tunnel!

In the darkness inside the tunnel, as you walk along the tracks, you need to always keep at the front of your mind that – just as much as there had been day-light at the entrance of the train tunnel, there will also be day-light at the other endl.  It’s a no brainer!  What goes in, much come out…

light at the end of the tunnel
light at the end of the tunnel

Keeping your head tall while walking in the dark, and looking straight ahead of you while walking along the tracks, you will eventually begin to see ‘the Light at the end of the tunnel’.  The Light at the end of the tunnel represents hope!  You need to always look straight ahead to see ‘hope’…  So, stop looking at your feet as you walk along by the side of the track, in the dark.

light at the end of the tunnel
light at the end of the tunnel

 

 

Raise your eyes up,  and look straight ahead of you. Keep looking towards the end of the tunnel.  And soon enough, you will see that there is so a light of hope at the end of the tunnel!

 

 

 

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

The courage to change the things I can,

And the wisdom to know the difference.

 

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